Turning 30 has changed how former BBNaija star Segun “Sheggz” Olusemo sees love and relationships. In a viral video shared in July 2026, Sheggz admitted he no longer believes love is about finding a perfect partner. Instead, he now sees it as two people choosing to grow together despite their flaws. According to him,
“At 30, I don’t think love is about finding someone that’s perfect, but two imperfect people coming together to grow and build something special.”
Sheggz also revealed that past relationships taught him difficult but valuable lessons. He explained that love exposed his own weaknesses, including his ego, poor communication, and lack of patience. As a result, he no longer focuses on instant chemistry alone. These days, he values consistency, accountability, and peace of mind more than exciting moments. For him, real love is about respect, daily effort, and building a healthy relationship together.
Interestingly, his latest comments come just weeks after fresh drama surrounded his relationship with fellow BBNaija star Bella Okagbue. In May 2026, fans noticed both stars unfollowed each other on Instagram. Bella also removed several photos of them together. The move quickly sparked breakup rumours and cheating allegations across social media. Although neither of them confirmed a split at the time, the online speculation kept fans talking for weeks.
Before the rumours, Sheggz had often spoken confidently about marrying Bella in the future. However, Bella once made it clear that she would not wait forever. She said she could easily move on if marriage did not happen because Sheggz “doesn’t have one of my kidneys.” Whether the popular “Shella” relationship survives or not, many fans believe Sheggz’s latest reflection shows a more mature and grounded approach to love. His message has already started conversations online about what truly makes a relationship last.
