The death of Nollywood actor Alex Ekubo continues to leave many colleagues and fans heartbroken. Among those deeply affected is actor, filmmaker, and producer Uzor Arukwe. Recently, Arukwe explained why he did not immediately react publicly to the sad news.
In a touching Instagram post, the actor said his silence was not intentional. Instead, he struggled to find the right words. According to him, some losses are difficult to understand and even harder to accept.
He wrote,
“I’ve been quiet. And I know some people wondered why I didn’t post, why I didn’t say anything, why there were no pictures, no captions, no public display of grief.
“The truth is, I didn’t know what to say. Some losses don’t meet you online first; they sit with you quietly. They make you shake your head and say, “Mba… not this person. Not Alex.” You replay the memories and hope someone will call to say there has been a mistake.
“I met Alex Ikenna Ekubo on Dabby Chimere’s set. From day one, he was warm, accommodating, and every bit the gentleman people have described him to be. No noise. No airs. Just a genuinely good man.”
Furthermore, Arukwe said the stories shared by people who knew Ekubo closely reminded him of what truly matters in life. He added,
“Listening to the stories from those who knew him better, I found myself humbled. It reminded me that at the end of it all, people won’t only remember our talent or our achievements. They will remember our kindness. They will remember how we treated people. They will remember our spirit.
“So silence was my first response to the news of your death because grief comes with silence too. Not every goodbye needs a post. Some are carried in prayer. Some are carried in memories. Some are carried in the heart.
“Alex… Ikuku. Daalụ. For your warmth. For your grace. For the example you left behind. Nọdụ n’udo. We’ll hold the fort on this side until we meet again. Journey well, ezigbo nwoke”.
Recall that the late actor’s funeral rites began with a service of songs in Lagos, followed by a wake in his hometown of Arochukwu, Abia State, as family, friends, colleagues, and fans gathered to pay their final respects. The ceremonies have been marked by heartfelt tributes, emotional moments, and a celebration of the life and legacy he leaves behind.
